Blogger Njambi Fever has opened up about her separation from her husband, saying the decision was intended to give them time to reflect on their relationship, heal and determine what works best for their family.
In a statement shared on Thursday, October 8, 2026, Njambi explained that the separation was not rooted in hatred but in the need for clarity as they navigate changes in their relationship.
She said the two needed space to understand themselves as individuals while keeping their child’s well-being at the centre of their decisions.
Njambi acknowledged that the process had not been easy, particularly because they still care about each other and want the best for their family despite the changes they are experiencing.
She noted that having feelings for someone does not necessarily mean a relationship must continue in its original form, describing the acceptance of that reality as one of the most difficult parts of their situation.
According to Njambi, the immediate focus is on giving each other room to process the changes while figuring out how to continue raising their child together.
She also admitted that neither of them knows what the future holds, noting that their circumstances could look different in the coming months or years.
Rather than make definitive decisions about their future, Njambi said they are allowing themselves time to work through the situation and understand what comes next.
She reflected on the importance of allowing life to unfold instead of trying to control every outcome, adding that separation does not have to result in hostility.
Njambi maintained that two people can still wish each other well even when the relationship they built together no longer works for them.
She further emphasised that decisions concerning their family should be guided by what is best for them and their child rather than pressure or expectations from outsiders.
Her remarks highlight her approach to navigating life after separation while balancing personal changes with the responsibilities of parenthood.
For now, Njambi said they are still figuring out the way forward, maintaining that they do not need to have all the answers immediately as they adjust to their new circumstances.
